There are lot of words about happiness and there is no recipe to reach it except following destination. To become poor, sick, lonely, without hope and sense – obviously is far from happiness but the most of people doing just so ! Why ?
Malady never comes without reason. Aged people repeat «to be healthy» that means nothing causes joy so for being happy. Joy sometimes can be felt but it has duration in comparison with happiness as the steady psychics state. How to protect from illness is only personal choice. Writing on alcohol or tobacco «dangerous» nothing matters: people continue abuse it as well as fast food. No comments.
Poverty also has reasons. Mainly it is due to illegal thinking. We have a proof of it on examples of those who won lottery – they spent everything and returned to zero level ! Just keeping payoff in bank nothing matters: it’s to undertake new decisions which demands other thinking, accepting risks – it’s not comfortable so to spent for pleasures is much more easier. Such people afraid of change and prefer stay poor. Middle class is not better: they live as the most, in average, and have life « in average».
Loneliness is also by reason. It’s inability communicate: to be pleasant, interesting and valuable. People value affection, sincerity, conception, wisdom. The lonely is incapable to demonstrate it except his egoism. Aged lonely people could foresee extinction around but had they did whatever ? Our planet is overpopulated and the world is full of lonely people – it’s really strange.
Even with life sense it is not so simple. The young start their life with parents delusions the most dangerous of them is playing the game of moneymaking to win to age of 40. Creating of family is also element of the game but it’s extremely sad that from billions of people choice is made only from 1-2 « candidates». As a result in 40 we achieve some success but found everything is senseless and call it as age crisis. Where are the rest pages of instruction to this game ?
So people create all problems on their had only themselves feeling unhappy. The opposite is valid also: if to live with mind it’s possible to build and have happy life. It’s important to realize that not being wealthy it’s hard to feel happy so the assertion «poor but happy» is false. From other side wealth does not guarantee happiness. It generates only opportunities the most valuable of them is to have freedom for self-actualization. We fly high when fond of favorite goal. But the most complex is to have it along the life. Every age has its interests. In 20 it’s impossible to image ourselves in 80 as in 80 is out of interest dreams of 20. Fascinating long life affair sounds nice but seems to be utopia. Happiness is to meet every day having the affair of life. Along with life pleasures (as morning cappuccino). Acquisition of
wealth, material and emotional, as a result of different dreams achievement is very close to happiness.
